J and I went for a walk. We found 2 horses and a crowd of chickens, who all rushed over to see us. One of the horses was obviously a bit too excited to see us and started to break the fence down. We didn’t hang around too long.
(Extract from diary of 1st December 1984)
Sometimes you need to get out of the house, but it’s not always easy to think of somewhere to go. Just walking around can be boring, but there are things you can see or do without paying an entrance fee.
One of the first trips I took J on when he was just a few months’ old was to see the chickens. We lived on a housing estate, but just on the edge was a small farm, and on this small farm was a field of chickens. When we got to the wire fence separating us and them, they would charge towards us with great speed and enthusiasm. J seemed unperturbed by this and I’m sure it has stood him in good stead for the varied experiences he has subsequently had. When faced with strange things, I’m sure his subconscious tells him ‘I survived the chickens!’
I was always on the lookout for things going on that we could go and see. Here are a few good ones:
Workmen and building sites (someone’s always mending a hole in the road these days)
Watching street lights being mended (they have those amazing cherry pickers)
Go through a car wash
Watch a car being washed
Feed ducks
Bottle bank
Visit a pet shop
Wander round a local market
Visit the library (sometimes we went twice in one day)
Ride on a bus
Ride on a train
Stand on a bridge (if it’s over water, play Pooh sticks)
Visit the beach – collect stones with holes in, build a sandcastle, make a seaweed picture, make a sand sculpture, go beachcombing, look for other sorts of ‘treasures’, gather materials for craft activities
Go wool gathering (a traditional activity which I’ll talk about more later).